'ORGASME'

"ya ampun.. bu..bu.. siang2 udah ngomongin orgasme.. Pak Panji kirimin juga doung.. biar ikutan pinter.. hehe.." kata Monik

" Hah... mbak apain sich kok ngirim beginian.." seru risti

" Nah itu apaan tuh, bentar-bentar....(scroll down)hmmm, mana gambarnya??" komentar Baleng


Sebenarnya ini adopt dari web sebelah. Kira-kira apa yang pertama kali kita bayangkan jika baca judul diatas??
99% pasti terlintas pikiran kotor, ngeres & sensualitas.Sebenarnya kata diatas adalah salah satu kata yang dianggap tabu oleh para wanita untuk membicarakannya. Tapi benarkah tabu & ngga perlu dibicarakan???.... Well Ladies, it's your choice

Mungkin opini dibawah ini bisa menyuarakan hati kita.... enjoy!

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Bagiku judul ini harus dibiasakan diucapkan oleh pasangan-pasangan modern yang hidup di Jakarta dengan betis mulus rekan kerja menjadi pemandangan sehari-hari di kantor. Jangan pernah merasa tabu membahas dengan pasangan tercinta kita, karena kuat tidaknya suatu pernikahan berawal dari ‘tempat tidur’.
Terbayang kan kalau saat kita sedang lapar-laparnya, biasanya karena masalah ‘in bed’ yang ga tuntas dan ga indah blas, lalu bertemu petugas reception dari klien yang sedang kita kunjungi dengan senyum dan belahan dada yang aduhai menawan atau bertemu dengan Lawyer muda, ganteng dengan dandanan yang well-groom. Bukankah artinya kita sudah selingkuh di pikiran kita? Seperti singa lapar yang melihat anak jerapah hingga terjadi proses kejar mangsa kau ku tangkap.
Perempuan punya karakter ejakulasi unik yang biasa disebut orgasme. Meskipun pemalu perempuan sangat butuh hal ini sama kuatnya dengan seorang lelaki. Bla… bla… Bagaimana teknik nya tidak akan dibahas disini.
Yang akan dibahas disini adalah issue tentang pernikahan yang peduli istri orgasme. Pada pernikahan dimana keduanya sama-sama buta tentang sex-education sebaiknya perlu kembali mempelajari bagaimana membuat pasangan yang semula enggan menjadi menyala dan lebih aktif dari kita. Buang kata-kata tabu, malu, sungkan dalam membahas kenikmatan bersama. Bukankah sudah halal hukumnya, kenapa tidak dibikin lezat sekalian?
Jangan pernah berfikir bahwa perempuan tidak butuh orgasme. Orgasme sama pentingnya dengan sarapan pagi, mampu menyeimbangkan kadar gula darah. Seorang suami harus dapat mengerti keinginan perempuan, harus mampu memberi rangsangan dengan penuh keakinan, caranya? Perbanyaklah frekuensi kegiatan di tempat tidur dan jangan ragu untuk bertanya dan mengucapkan terima kasih pada pasangan.
Jangan pernah berfikir bahwa perempuan butuh waktu lama untuk orgasme. Lama tidakna tergantung keahlian pasangan dalam memberikan foreplay , jadi jangan pernah kesal kalau istri kita ‘belum sampai-sampai’ juga. Tanyakan area mana yang ingin disentuh, foreplay yang hebat akan membuat orgasme yang cepat dan dahsyat.
Sekali lagi, Jangan pernah berfikir bahwa perempuan tidak butuh orgasme …

A letter for my son

Dear My first son Alm. Mohammad Licra Susatyo,

I wrote this letter for you
I want you to know mommy always miss you.
I want you to know mommy always love you so much since you grew in my womb
I want you to know mommy always pray for your happiness for where ever you are now
And mommy sure you are in the best heaven that I would never been imagine before.

Although 29weeks 2days was to short for me to be with you
I was happy all that time to have you inside me.
Jan 13, 2007 maybe was the sorrow est day in my life
but thanks God I can thru all...

My son, please forgive if I was not being a good 'mom going to be' that time
forgive me if I ever let you down
Hope you know that I was trying to be the best for you.

Dear my little angel Licra, mommy expecting your brother inside me now
yes, mommy is pregnant 29weeks 3days today
he suppose to be your little brother for you, a friend to play with.

Please pray for your mommy that mommy will deliver your brother when he's ready to be healthy, safely and completely.
Please pray for your brother that he will become smart & sweet child. Love & caring to our family.
Please pray for mommy that I will be the best mom for your future brother & sister
Please pray for Ayah that he will always love, care & protect our family.

I Always Love & remember you

-Love
your Mommy
Ira Puspitasari Susatyo

A Prayer for Couples

By Marianne Williamson

Dear God,

Please make of our relationship a great and holy adventure.

May our joining be a sacred space.

May the two of us find rest here, a haven for our souls.

Remove from us any temptation to judge one another or to direct one another.

We surrender to You our conflicts and our burdens.

We know You are our Answer and our rock.

Help us to not forget.

Eating mindfully is a gift that we give ourselves
Bring us together in heart and mind as well as body.

Remove from us the temptation to criticize or be cruel.

May we not be tempted by fantasies and projections, but guide us in the ways of holiness.

Save us from darkness.

May this relationship be a burst of light.

May it be a fount of love and wisdom for us, for our family, for our community, for our world.

May this bond be a channel for Your love and healing, a vehicle of Your grace and power.

As lessons come and challenges grow,let us not be tempted to forsake each other.

Let us always remember that in each other we have the most beautiful woman, the most beautiful man, the strongest one, the sacred one in whose arms we are repaired.

May we remain young in this relationship. May we grow wise in this relationship.

Bring us what You desire for us, and show us how You would have us be.

Thank you, dear God,You who are the cement between us.

Thank You for this love.

Amen.

Missing You

2 weeks was to short for me,

14 days was to soon for me

I wish I could have some more time.

Just to have you by my side.

Is this the life that I really want??

have alife in saperate way??

Oh.. God please give me strength!!

Thanks to God, I've Met You

Dear God

Thank you for joy you give

Thank you for the tears you give

Thank you for the love you give

Thanks you for the bless you give

Thank you for the husband you sent

I Love you my gorgeous husband.....

Whispering from You

Audi Eko Susatyo
On 7/24/07, audi eko susatyo <audisusatyo@gmail.com> wrote:

You are what i want to feel

when i am not being touched

You are what i need to hear

when things start getting rough

You are what takes my breath away

when you read to me sweet tastes

You are what makes me smile

when i have a frown on my face

You are what makes me laugh

when I don't want to cry

You are what makes me want to live

instead of wanting to die

I'd give anything to meet you

I'd give anything to touch you

I'd give anything to hug you

And I can't wait to kiss you

Your Lovely Husband,

A Letter from My Soulmate

To My Wonderful Wife

(Ira Dwi Puspitasari)

How do I begin to tell you how lucky I am

to have you in my life?

I'll start by saying what a gift you gave me

the day you became my wife.

You're my best friend in the good times

and my rock in times of sorrow.

You're the reason for sweet yesterday

sand my promise for tomorrow.

I never thought I could feel this loved

until you became my wife.

You made this year and every year

the best one of my life.

Love always,

(Audi Eko Susatyo)

at La piazza

My Gorgeous Husband going to be